In Mark 7:22 Jesus identified adultery as another deadly, defiling sin. While some believe that a leader’s private life ought to remain his or her business, it’s important to note that what one does in secret is indicative of who one really is. Adultery is a sign of weakness, not strength. It shows a lack of control and infidelity. Could this weakness not be applied to a leader’s promises made in the public sphere? A sign of failed trust, deception, and lying, adultery reduces our confidence in a leader’s ability to remain committed to both the mission and people he or she is called to serve. The sin is forgivable, yes, but there are serious consequences. Self-control is a sign of strength for a leader. Serving leaders provide what is best for everyone by denying self in both the private and public arena.

KEY QUESTIONS: Am I the same person in public as I am in private? Where are my private and public spheres not aligned? In what areas of my life should I strengthen my resolve, develop self-control, and move toward greater commitment?